To All The Women

By: Anam Adil

My dear woman! If you are reading this I hope you are in good health and state of mind. I see you, i know you are doing it all, i know how you survive the day by working all day and not many people appreciate it. I have seen you making tea and delicious dishes in this hot weather and i have seen not many people admire this. I have seen you keeping all the things together. I have seen you struggling to sleep. I have seen you regretting things and thinking about getting a job. I know how you struggle to make others happy and they never appreciate it. I know they break your heart. I know how you stopped doing things you loved. I know you sacrifice. I know how you feel. I know you cry. I know you feel lonely. I know you can’t share it with everyone. I know sometimes you want to run away somewhere. My dear woman! I want to hug you and tell you that you are a superwoman. Without you, this home won’t be home. Please make sometime for yourself too, your health your happiness.. things you want. 

My dear woman! If you are reading this I hope you are in good health and state of mind. I have seen you working all day long. I have seen you trying to manage job and house holds. I have seen you struggling to make things perfect. I have seen you how you feel like losing it all and not being good at anything. I have seen you how you struggle to manage time and not getting any for yourself. I have seen you getting tired. I have seen you waiting for weekends and when it arrives it’s just gone with a blink. I have seen how you want to rest for sometime. You are perfect just the way you are honey. You don’t need anyone to appreciate what you doing because you already know this in your heart that you are giving your best to everything. My dear woman! I want to hug you and tell you don’t worry and do things you love so that you also enjoy everything. 

My dear woman! I see you hear what people say. I see how you can’t answer everything and how you fight with yourself inside your heart it’s like a storm sometimes. I know you don’t want to hear other peoples’ opinions and trust me you don’t have to. You are a warrior. Every one has a different story and in every story there is a villain, there are bad times.. i know it is going to end well. I know with a clean heart and constant struggle you can achieve your goal. Focus on yourself. 

My dear woman! I have seen you struggling to adjust in a new family. I have seen you with kids and can see how changed you are after marriage and kids. I have known you and i can see how you stropped enjoying yourself and how you do everything now for your kids and family. I appreciate you. I know you struggle. I know you can’t manage it and you try so hard to make it all perfect. I know at times you want to run away from kids and responsibilities. I know you also want a vacation on your own. I know you want to go to friends gatherings and you miss you cousins. I know you want to spend alone time but most of the time you can’t. I know sometimes you don’t want to cook and sometimes you don’t want to work. I know you think you are not a good mother or wife or sister or daughter. I know sometimes you just want someone to listen to each and every thing you want to say and don’t judge you. I know you! I am here to listen and will never judge you. I know you are a human. I know you are still a baby and need someone to hug you and tell you that everything will be okay. I know you are not a grown up at times, we are all still children and have the same wishes and dreams we had before.

My dear woman! I want to hug you all. I just want to say you are amazing and I admire each and everything you do. Much love.